Baby Products You Don’t Need: Not Everything You’re Being Sold for Your Baby is Necessary — or Safe
- Katherine Whitby
- Apr 23
- 6 min read
Cutting through baby product overwhelm, marketing noise, and parenting pressure
Baby Products You Don’t Need
By Katherine · Paediatric Nurse, Health Visitor & Maternal Wellbeing Practitioner · Baby Steps
It started with a tiramisu hot cross bun.
I was in M&S and spotted it — a perfectly normal hot cross bun… with layers of tiramisu inside. And while I’m sure it tasted lovely, I remember thinking:
We’ve added so many layers to everything now.
And parenting is no different.
What used to be simple, instinctive and supported by a handful of trusted professionals has become a world of endless products, constant marketing, and conflicting advice - all aimed at parents who are already exhausted, overwhelmed, and trying their best.
As a Paediatric Nurse, Health Visitor, and someone who has spent 30 years working in A&E, listening to parents in my classes and as a parent myself, I see the impact of this every day.
Anxious parents sitting in the triage room and at the Studio in my courses, second-guessing themselves, and feeling like they need “more” to keep their baby safe.
And I want to gently say this:
Not everything being marketed to parents is necessary - or even safe.
And that’s not your fault.
The reality of modern baby marketing
No judgement - because I completely understand how it happens.
When you have a baby, you’re suddenly placed into a world where everything feels important, urgent, and essential.
But here’s what’s really going on:
🚩 You are being heavily marketed to
🚩 Not everything you see is evidence-based
🚩 Not everything is recommended by medical professionals
🚩 More products do not automatically mean more safety or better outcomes
Influencers with affiliate links, social media trends, and companies with huge marketing budgets often have a much louder voice than healthcare professionals trying to keep parents informed and safe.
And when you’re tired, sleep-deprived, and just trying to do your best - it’s incredibly easy to believe them.
Baby gadgets, tools and “must-haves” - helpful or harmful?
Some baby products absolutely do have a place, Baby Products You Don't Need.
But many are marketed in a way that creates fear, urgency, or the idea that you are “not enough” without them.
In reality, they can sometimes:
Increase anxiety rather than reduce it
Delay learning of essential skills (like basic first aid)
Create dependency on equipment rather than confidence in you
Add unnecessary financial pressure
And in some cases, they may even be unsafe.
Here are a few examples I regularly get asked about:
❌ Anti-choking devices (e.g. suction devices like LifeVac)
These are not currently recommended in UK first aid guidance for home use. They can create a false sense of security and may delay effective first aid techniques such as back blows and abdominal thrusts — which are evidence-based and life-saving when used correctly.
What matters most is knowing what to do in the moment.
❌ Automatic baby patting devices
These do not adhere in any way to the Lullaby Trust’s Safer Sleep guidelines of baby’s sleeping on their back (the device promotes side sleeping) nor a clear cot - this is suffocation and overheating risk. What matters most is knowing the latest evidence based safer sleep advice and seeking sleep advice for your family, if you need support from a trusted experienced health professional. I know how hard sleep deprivation is!
❌ Baby helmets / protective backpacks
These are often marketed to prevent injury during normal development (rolling, crawling, walking).
But babies need to learn how to move, balance, and even fall safely as part of normal development.
Protecting them from every bump can sometimes interfere with this learning process.
❌ Electric nail files for babies
These are often promoted as “safer and easier”, but in reality they can cause accidental skin damage or bleeding if used incorrectly.
A simple soft emery board while baby is asleep is still one of the safest and most effective options.
The bigger issue isn’t the products - it’s the pressure
This isn’t about shaming products or parents.
It’s about recognising something bigger:
We are living in an era where parenting has become commercialised.
And that creates pressure that looks like:
“If I don’t buy this, am I putting my baby at risk?”
“Everyone else is using this, should I be?”
“Am I missing something important?”
I see this all the time in A&E and in my Baby Steps courses - and I want to gently reassure you:
You are not missing anything.
You are not behind.
And you do not need to buy your way into being a safe, capable parent.
What actually matters most
When we strip everything back, the foundations of keeping your baby safe are simple:
✨ Evidence-based first aid knowledge
✨ Responsive, calm caregiving
✨ Understanding normal baby development
✨ Trusting your instincts (they are stronger than you think)
✨ Knowing when to seek medical advice
And importantly — feeling calm enough to access that knowledge when you need it.
This is why I do what I do
I created Baby Steps because I kept seeing the same pattern:
Parents don’t need more products.
They need clarity.
They need calm.
They need someone to help them make sense of the noise.
So instead of more “things”, I focus on:
🩷 Practical, evidence-based first aid knowledge (so you feel confident in emergencies)
🩷 Baby massage and relaxation (so you feel calmer and more connected)
🩷 Weaning support (so you don’t feel overwhelmed or fearful)
🩷 Real-life, judgment-free conversations in a supportive community
🩷 My online and Studio courses designed to reduce anxiety, not add to it
Because when parents feel calm, babies feel it too.
Final thought
That tiramisu hot cross bun made me smile - but it also reminded me how easily we add layers to things that don’t need them.
Parenting doesn’t need more layers.
It needs less noise.
More trust.
More calm.
And more support that actually makes life simpler — not more complicated.
If you’re feeling overwhelmed…
You’re not alone.
And you don’t need to figure it all out through products, trends, or social media.
If you’re unsure about anything — from choking devices to weaning worries — I’m always happy to help point you back to evidence-based, safe guidance.
👇 And I’d love to ask you:
What baby product are you unsure about or feel pressured to buy right now?
What can you do to prevent feeling overwhelmed by all this?
The first step is recognising that not everything you see online needs your attention.
It’s worth being really intentional about how you follow and use social media during pregnancy and early parenthood. Ask yourself:
Does this account make me feel calmer or more anxious?
Am I learning something helpful, or just feeling pressured?
Is this evidence-based, or trend-based?
Trust your gut instinct.
If you can’t feel or hear it anymore, that’s often a sign of information overload — not that you’re doing anything wrong, but that there’s simply too much noise coming in.
And when you do need guidance, try to come back to trusted, experienced professionals who have spent years working with babies and families — not trends that will come and go.
You don’t need more noise. You need clarity.
So how can I help?
If you’re feeling overwhelmed, anxious, or unsure what’s actually needed for your baby, this is exactly what I support parents with every day.
You don’t need to navigate this alone.
Here’s how I can support you:
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If you’re unsure about something you’ve seen online, or you’re feeling pulled in lots of directions, please know this:
You don’t need to figure it all out alone.
Sometimes the most powerful thing you can do is pause… and come back to calm, trusted guidance
Just get in touch,
I would love to ease any concerns,
Katherine x
Written by Katherine
Paediatric Nurse · Health Visitor · Maternal Wellbeing Practitioner · Mum of Two
With over 30 years of experience supporting babies and families, Katherine founded Baby Steps in 2006 to give parents the calm, expert, personalised Weaning support that stretched NHS services can no longer provide. Katherine works with families online and in person from her peaceful woodland studio - and genuinely loves every minute of it.
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